7 practical toilet training tips to make the process so much easier
Children need to be both physically and psychologically ready before starting the toilet training process.
Starting too early can result in a longer overall process or worse still, having to abandon it midway through. Generally between two and half years and three and half years is the ideal age, but it depends on your child – and you should always let them take the lead.
The toilet training process can be overwhelming for a lot of mums – it requires patience and time – and many can be a bit worried about starting.
However, with the help of the following seven practical tips, you'll be on your way to potty success!
1. Don’t start too early
When your little one is ready, he or she will start to tell you when they’ve done a poo or they'll start to pull off their nappy, especially when it's wet.
2. Summertime is the best time to start
The warm weather will mean they can run around in just a pair of pants – and will realise more quickly when they have an accident. It also means there will be less washing up for Mum, which is always a plus.
3. Deciding between the potty and the toilet
The potty is handy for when you are out and about, especially if your child doesn't feel comfortable sitting on the toilet. However, skipping the potty part means you don't have to bring one around with you whenever you go.
4. Reward their successes and dismiss any accidents as no big deal
Encouraging your child to feel special and grown-up will help them to engage in the process, be proud of their achievements and build good foundations for long-term success. Never scold them for wetting themselves or make a big deal out of it.
5. Normalise it
Telling your child about potty training is another way to make the process easier; books and stories are also a good idea. If possible, try to keep some books in the bathroom, and let your child read about the steps as he or she attempts to use the potty.
6. Make the bathroom a fun place to visit
To get over any fears that could be associated with using the toilet, try to make it fun! Visit the bathroom often throughout the day and even if your child doesn’t need to go, sit down and read a story, sing a nursery rhyme together, or play eye-spy so that they enjoy their visits and the one-on-one time with you.
7. Show, don’t tell
One of the best ways to get your child to understand the idea of using the potty (or toilet) is to let him or her see you go to the toilet. Show them how you take your pants and underwear off, wipe, and flush. You may find that your child develops an interest in sitting on the toilet now – let them, as it’s a good learning experience, even if it doesn’t work at first!